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It takes hearing the issues of others to truly out your own mess into perspective. Some ladies admitted to having eating disorders in the past. Wow! Like, any body issues I have never/will never keep me from eating or purposely throwing up. I really wonder what is going on in your head to make you stick your finger down your throat. I have prayer slots open for them all. I weigh more than all of them. I think it’s a cultural thing. The vast majority of black women are not going to deprive themselves of good because they aren’t at their ideal body weight. It’s just so sad. That California ideal of beauty is a hard beast to ignore; Eats women alive here.
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“Eats women alive” – irony.