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Revamped list of things I am looking for in a man: (in nor particular order)
Independent
Ambitious
Has Individuality
Attentive
Kind
Musically inclined
Risk taker (to compensate for my lack there of)
Intelligent
Sense of self
Has style
Out-of-the-box thinker
Sensitive (to my needs)
Attractive
Tall
Dark skinned
Beautiful smile
Full lips
Beautiful, open, deep, meaningful eyes
Not fat and/or sloppy
Not crack head skinny either
No speech impediments
Facial hair (goatee, mustache, especially a beard that is well kept)
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