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I was watching a Dormtainment podcast titled “Do Men Get Lonely” and it came to my attention that a couple of the guys were equating loneliness for being horny. IMO, they are two totally different things.
Horny is a physical need. It is a longing for sexual gratification. The state of being horny brings about specific actions like, masturbating, admiring the opposite sex with a dash of fantasy, and finding a person willing to have sex with you. Where sex becomes difficult is whether the two involved are able to detach the emotional strings that come with the physical act. I have never been able to do so:( It’s like my sexual partners have left a scar. Some deeper than others. Some so minor that spiritual coco butter have made them disappear. Some so major that a dark spot remains; a reminder of lessons learned or
Lonely is an emotional need. It is a longing for a deeper connections or the presence of a complimentary energy. The state of being lonely brings about specific actions like, seeking friends to hang with, soliciting faux attention from social media, and sometimes depression. When I returned home from a trip to the Sip early this morning I found myself staring out the window and realizing I had no one to come home to. Having special people in your life to share life with is a goal of every human being so when we have moments where the desired complimentary energy is not readily available, there’s a sense of lonesomeness.
Let’s remember to not confuse the two. Don’t seek sex when you’re lonely because it is a weak bandage for a wound that is emotional. When the act is over the feelings will still be there.
BTW, I am so glad Taye is back to drinking juice.
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