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I date to find someone compatible. Someone who enhances my life. Someone fun. Someone intelligent. Someone I would want a future with. After 1-2 dates I know if this is someone I’d like to spend more time with. Dating just to have shit to do could lead to the other person feeling like they have a chance when you know good and damn well they don’t. If I have learned anything in the past two years, it’s that actions don’t necessarily dictate intention. Do you date just for shits and giggles? If so, Why?
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